Asking Eric: My pastor and I have been chatting via dating app, but he doesn't know I'm part of his flock

Dear Eric: I saw my pastor on a dating app. This is mostly fine, because he is single and hasn’t taken a vow of chastity (that I know of). He even said in his profile that he leads a faith community.

We matched and I messaged something silly. I guess he didn’t remember who I was because he messaged back and we got to talking.