When it comes to durians, eight out of 10 Malaysians would ask their homestay host for permission before eating the fruit, enjoy it outdoors, or simply leave it behind. (AI-generated pic) KUALA LUMPUR: Taking off your shoes at the door. Washing the dishes before checking out.
For many Malaysians, these aren't written rules - they're simply common courtesy. A recent YouGov survey commissioned by Airbnb suggests those everyday habits continue even while travelling, with 85% of respondents saying it is important to be a respectful guest when staying in a homestay. Among the 1,000 Malaysians surveyed, nine in 10 described themselves as good or excellent guests.
More tellingly, many said their behaviour was guided not by house rules, but by common sense (61%), respect for their host (60%) and personal values (59%). The survey also found that 82% would feel guilty if their actions disturbed neighbours during a stay, while four in five said they felt a responsibility towards the surrounding community, not just the property they were staying in. Good manners, it seems, extend beyond simply following the rules.
About two-thirds of respondents said they treat homestays much as they would their own homes, washing dishes, taking out rubbish and tidying up before leaving. Some even go a step further by leaving thank-you notes for their hosts, watering plants or cleaning areas they hadn't used. More than three-quarters also said they make a point of reading house rules at the start of every stay, not because they have to, but because they want to avoid causing inconvenience.
Taken together, the findings suggest many Malaysians view staying in a homestay as more than simply booking accommodation - it's about being welcomed into someone else's home and neighbourhood. The durian dilemma The survey also tackled one uniquely Malaysian travel question: what happens when durian season coincides with a homestay booking? Rather than assume it would be acceptable, almost eight in 10 respondents said they would ask their host first, enjoy the fruit outdoors, or avoid bringing it back altogether.
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