Dear Abby: Reconnecting with old friend took far more of my time, energy than I was comfortable with

Dear Abby: Two years ago, I ran into an old friend I hadn’t seen in more than 25 years. We went to dinner the following week. It was a mix of grandiose stories, complaints about her health, complaints about her relationships and an attempt to make me feel guilty for not contacting her sooner.

I tried to excuse it, telling myself, “It’s been decades; of course she has a lot to say.”